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Monday
May 25
2009
Posted at 2:28pm 1 comment

Ego checker

Dealing with life's dissapointments is always a test. A great big test, in which the universe asks you what the hell it is that you have learned since the last lot of crap was thrown your way.

After you have washed yourself clean of the scent of unfulfilled dreams and have healed a little, it is important to look at what you didn't think you receive and ask yourself, why you thought you deserved better.

Sure, you are the cats pyjamas but do you really think you should get more than another person or a better outcome just because you are you?

That my friend is ego. 

Some things are your issue and your responsibility. You spent your rent payment money on clothes and champagne, then take responsibility and don't let it happen again. You failed your test because you didnt study and watched the Gossip Girl marathon instead? Suck it up my friend.

Perhaps we can really only be dissapointed about what we can control. Set ourselves realistic expectations and then let go of trying to manipulate a particular outcome that only serves us alone. The outcome should always serve the greater good.

Someone once said that disappointment is a step towards what your life is supposed to be. Often things work out for the best and we need to trust this.

Later.

 

 

 

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1 Response to ‘Ego checker’

1. AndrewBoldman says:

June 5, 2009 at 1:18am

da best. Keep it going! Thank you

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